Ways to Assist in a Successful Labor

Labor is a challenging time for both mom and her partner. Here are some tips to help mom’s partner aid her in having the most successful labor possible:
Talk to her lovingly, softly, and with encouragement.
Encourage her to walk and to change positions frequently.
In early labor, help to distract her from contractions. Go to a movie, walk in the park, or walk in the mall—NEAR YOUR DELIVERY HOSPITAL!
Aid her in maintaining a relaxed body and attitude. She needs to be as loose as possible.
Encourage her to drink liquids.
Remind her to use the bathroom.
Offer her ice chips; if she is warm or perspiring, use cool, wet cloths on her face and back.
Help her to focus on her goal—delivering a healthy baby.
Talk her through her contractions. Time them for her, and let her know when she is almost through them. If she is on a monitor, keep her informed on her progress through it.
Remind her and help her to use her breathing techniques
Touch, support and hold her through the contractions—if this is her preference.
Don’t be offended is she does not desire to be touched, supported, or held.
- Commonly laboring women will change moods frequently.
Apply balm to her lips as they become dry.
Massage her; apply counter pressure to her back.
- Use a warm rice pack to assist with your massaging.
- Offer her a heating pad on a low to medium setting
Praise her often; remind her of her goals, of her baby that will soon be in her arms.
Remain positive and calm even if she panics and becomes outrageous.
- Remember, it is just the process of labor and is a very natural occurrence.
Try not to leave her alone for any long period of time.
- She may become scared and anxious.
Ask her what she needs and how you can be of assistance.
Continue to praise and reassure her